Some countries have outlawed the spanking of children in every setting, including homes, schools, and penal institutions, [4] while others permit it when done by a parent or guardian. The spanking was a pretty thorough affair and before long, it was all I could do to hug into his lap in submission. When my ex-spouse and I were dating, we had the the usual getting-to-know-each-other talks — with a deeper dimension, since we had known each other as kids and had reconnected as adults.
Nothing here should be interpreted as advocating any non-consensual spanking activity or the spanking of minors. All of a sudden, the mother understood how the situation felt from the child’s point of view: that if my mother wants to hurt me, it makes no difference what she does it with; she might as well do it with a stone. For example, if your child did not put their team uniform in the laundry hamper and it is not ready for the game as a result, that is a natural consequence. Taking Anita by the hand, I guided her forcefully over my lap, and, when she hesitated for a split second, trying to brace herself with her other hand against my thigh, I immediately flicked it forward with my spanking hand, and pulled her quickly across my lap, secureing her in position with my strong arm, and vice like grip of my hand around her tiny waist.
She has three canes altogether – the third one is a straight cane 25 inches long and thicker than the other two; she sometimes uses this one when she feels I need more strict attention. The menacing whisper of the cane doing its work, and its mean whap on contact, while more severe on my bottom, make much less noise than the loud smack of the hairbrush on bare buttocks, especially when my oohs and aahs are added! You will be allowed to ask me any questions that you might have, as I will be observing your discomfort at having to be in this situation.Parent-child violence in one context was clearly abuse, while parent-child violence in another context was clearly discipline. But, from murders to affairs with the gardener, nothing was ever quite as gasp-worthy as the discovery that Bree's hubby Rex was paying a woman to, quite literally, walk all over him. His family home was halfway to being a farm, although his late father had been a lawyer in the nearby town, so it was quite away out from anywhere with only a few neighbours. The house was huge and family life revolved around the porch and the big room that had the world’s biggest kitchen at one end and the largest table I have ever seen at the other. It was an ordeal of indeterminate length, often with my two brothers and me shut up in a room, my father spanking the three of us in turn, ranting and raving between rounds of furious swats.
It was not that I particular took to big cities, but I had no close family of my own, so there was nothing to back for. When I was about 20 years old, I met an old pastor’s wife who told me that when she was young and had her first child, she didn’t believe in striking children, although spanking kids with a switch pulled from a tree was standard punishment at the time. I am a patient man, Young Lady, but, when you are caught misbehaving, and you will be, and you have tested my limits, then it is time for me to stop your foolish nonsense and time for you to be taken over my knees and soundly spanked. And with her parents still in France – well, she felt quite adult, going out to work, looking after the house….Tell the child to clean up a mess they made, fix something they broke, or pay for a broken thing they can't fix. In North America, the word "spanking" has often been used as a synonym for an official paddling in school, [6] and sometimes even as a euphemism for the formal corporal punishment of adults in an institution. Upstairs no passageway ran straight for more than 10 feet and the seemingly infinite numbers of bedrooms were set behind a maze of doors and old pictures.
